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Getting Mom and Dad's Approval

You want to go to the conference but you're worried about your parent's response? Cheer up, you're not alone.

Do you think your parents will react negatively? Or do feel awkward telling them about what God is doing in your life? Rest assured, that's normal.

Remember, your parents are one of God's most precious gifts to you. They have given you years and years of love. In fact, stop right now to consider all they have done for you. Have you always responded with gratitude? Granted, they're not perfect. But then again, neither are you. They want the best for you. Let them know what's happening in your life.

1. Pray that your parents will have a positive response, and that you will respect their decision. (Ephesians. 6:1-3)

2. Show and explain the conference brochure to them.

3. Tell them why you want to go and how it will help you grow as a person and as a Christian.
   1. You'll be exposed to some of the leading Christians in America. Show them the list of speakers. It's an opportunity to learn from them.

   2. You'll receive training in how to grow as a Christian. In addition, there will be practical, how-to training sessions in such areas as developing a closer walk with God, leadership, and relationships.

   3. You'll be able to spend several days with some of your friends. You'll also be able to make a lot of new friends. And they will have a positive influence in your life.

4. Ask for your parents' input. Don't think you know it all. It's amazing, but the rest of your life you will be discovering just how wise your parents really are!

5. Answer their questions.
   1. "How will you pay for the conference?" -- Ask for it as part of your birthday or Christmas gift. Ask your pastor or other committed Christians if they would like to help.

   2. "How will you get there?"-- Car pool with other students who live near your hometown. Student LINC will be glad to help you locate these people.

6. Be lovingly persistent, but give them time to think about it and decide. This will communicate two things. First, it will show them you really want to go. Second, it will communicate that you respect them and are concerned about with what they think.